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Teenage Cell Phone Agreement

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Creating a mobile phone contract between you and your tween is a great way to inform your child of these rules and responsibilities, as well as the consequences if you don`t look at them. Make sure you pass each item of your contract and allow your child to ask questions and even make suggestions. In a recent survey of young people, 4% of young people admitted to using their smartphone during the journey. But I`m pretty sure the “no text and no driving” clause is in all teen smartphone contracts. If you read the statistics on youth car wrecks related to distracted driving or if you listen to the daily drama of cyber-harassment, do you think that none of the teenagers involved have signed contracts on smartphones? Is your child a tween or teenager who can resist all temptations and keep the contract? The temptation of smartphone interactions and distractions is too great to control most teenagers. As a good coach, you have to keep the lines of authority clear. In our culture of disrespect, the new normality of a “phone in every teenager`s womb” has not helped our teens respect their elders, parents or authority. The telephone contract transfers the power of the parent to the adolescent and further undermines this guidance line. We need rules and limits, not a treaty. (2) In teens, tweens and mobile phones, Dr. Michael Rubin, a San Francisco Bay-area psychotherapist who has worked with teens for more than 19 years, recommends that teens have a simple cell phone, not a smartphone. Among the reasons he gave? “It`s not uncommon for teenagers to send nude photos of themselves to their friend or girlfriend.

What they do not understand is that they are under the age of 18. So if they have a nude photo of their 15-year-old girlfriend, they can be charged with possession of child pornography. A lot of people can say it won`t happen to me, but I`ve had a number of teenagers in psychotherapy because they`ve been accused of child pornography. Then close the consequences for breaking the rules of mobile phone use: 7. A telephone contract can damage your relationship with your teen. Smartphones, configured with built-in distractions, temptations and traps for collecting personal data, were not designed for the well-being of a teenage girl. (Even two major investors in Apple say the tech giant should do more to curb the growing addiction of mobile phones.) In addition, smartphone contracts establish a dangerous way of thinking that gives parents a false sense of security and gives teenagers a false sense of power.